Monday, April 19, 2010

Weird dream last night 19/4/2010

How this dream goes...

I was on yacht with some people and somehow, I have S$3000 and A$500 with a gal whom I have no idea who she was. For some reasons, we have to declare how much we have to the Australia custom but somehow, we did not, so when the custom officer boat just parked beside ours, they board our yacht. That gal try to hide it under a blanket that she used to cover herself with but was uncovered by the officer. They took the money and also the gal...

Then at a FLASH, I was Tele-ported to the custom office where I start to look for that gal, but this time, the gal I'm looking for is Vivian, but in vain...

then FLASH, I was at a place where it is something like a floating house.
So I was sitting there, suddenly, something was pulling the house to the open sea. My spare Oakley lens fell into the water, I ran to another part of the house, trying to find the boat that is tugging the house and try to get them to stop it at the same time looking around for divers and also looking for my own diving gears all at once. It was so confusing...Then I saw Vivian. Both of us went to the floating house dive shop and wanted to purchase some dive equipments to retrieve my lens. The owner was a old lady. How she sell the stuffs was, just like last time (tikum tikum)if you are in my era. It is something like a small pieces of paper with different items on each paper and staple on a big card board, but for this, the item display on the small paper were open up ones. Meaning, you can see what you want, then pull it out and the auntie will tell you how much and she will go and get the actual thing for you. The cheapest mask that I can find was S$95. That was Expensive lor... Vivian and I discuss about it then did not come out with any conclusion. Then the auntie become impatient and asked do we really want to buy or not? This pisses Vivian off but as I'm determined to get back my lens from the sea, I asked the auntie nicely how to I get to the shore. She told me something like you take the boat dunno what number and change to bus dunno what number, before she can finish, Vivian walks off fuming, so I have to rushed off to catch up with her.

Then, another FLASH happen and I was being Tele-ported again... As I running away from the shop, I was at a forest. In order for me to reach the jetty, I have to cut across a place where there were full of tombs. I ran across and keep saying excuse me and sorry as I have no intention of stepping on their tombs, nearing the jetty gate, there was this little gal on a tricycle and she just banged onto me. As I was rushing to the jetty, dunno for what, I just quickly helped her up, sweep away the dirt off her knees. Before I can reach the jetty, .... My cell phone ring.

I woke up. As my land line is connected to my cell phone, a idiot called my land line and asked, hello, is this Xishan primary school? I say NO, this is my house phone and I am sleeping!!! Time was 6.30am. Damn it.. so try to take another 1/2 hr nap then totally wake up...1st thing, grab a paper and pen and jotted this dream down.

This is one kind of a weird dream... haha..

Monday, February 8, 2010

It's going to be another Chinese New Year

Normally, as my dad & mom are the eldest from both families, on the 2nd day of CNY, uncles, aunties, cousins and the little ones from my cousins will all gathered at my place and there's hardly any place for people to move around.

Last year was a total different year for my family.
As my dad passed away for less than a year, we are not supposed to celebrate CNY 2009, hence, my bro-in-law decided to gather everyone and we head down to Batu Pahat(his home town)where all his ex-classmate of donkey years have their gathering.

This year onwards, or rather last year, thing is no longer the same.
I heard that as granny is taken care by my fifth uncle, the celebration was held @ his place, therefore, the arrangement will be something like this...

1st day, as usual, go over to visit my mom's mom at my eldest uncle's place. That will be probably around 10+ 11+ where we will have lunch prepared by my auntie, then around 2, 3 or 4 plus depending, we will leave for home sweet home.
(Likely, I will be sending my mom home 1st and depending on what time Viv's parent at home, I will pop over there to pai nien. (hope I got it right..)

Then playing by ear, I may or may not stay over at Viv's place as on the 2nd day of CNY, all of us will be popping over to my fifth uncle's place.

I have no idea how long will we be there but hopefully, it will be as rowdy as how it used to be at my place. The kids will be wondering whether SLY will be there or not but likely he will be...
Ohh.. to add on, my dad's sister passed on too last year so guessed her kids will not be joining in...

It's a sad feeling that both of them have left us.

At this time of the year, suddenly, I just missed my dad... I mean, of cos ppl will die when they get old but the memories will leave on with us and by recalling them, it really make me cry... YES, I cry ok cos I love and missed him.

STOP!.. phew.. ok..

Sorry for this as I just cannot control my feeling...

Oh well, to shed some happy occasion, hopefully, I can sell away my flat at a good price, pass a portion back to my mom so that she feel more secure with some $$ under her pillow.

After that, not in sequence....

1) Settle some Biz's issue which was drag on by my old buddy for a hell of a long time and hopefully can put the thing on hold or one time settlement.

2) Getting a new home together with my tweetie and build our own love nest.

3) Preparation of going to another chapter of life. (buying ring lah etc)

Next, ...


Next time then say .... :)

Oh well, Hope this year onwards will be a good and wonderful year for everyone.


Happy New Year to whoever is reading this...

Gong Xi Fa Cai in advance... :)

Friday, September 18, 2009

18/9/09 Last day of Seventh Month

OK, CALL ME STUPID, CALL ME SILLY, CALL ME NARROW MIND, PETTY OR WHATEVER, I DUN GIVE A SHIT! Just wanna pour my frustration and anger here!

Normally, mom will activate me to help out with everything from setting up the candles to burning of joss sticks to praying to burning.

Today, I don't know for what F reason/s, my BIL want to merge the offering he got for his father, mother etc.. His entire family join in the process. Worst still, one of them is not a sincere in praying, her mentality is just to play with fire.

As the public bin for burning is limited, all of them including my mom gather round it to burn the paper stuffs that was meant for the dead. As we have about 6 sets of offerings for 5 love ones excluding 3 sets from my BIL's side, I decided not to crowd in together and wait till the offering meant for MY DAD!

Here's the pissed off part...

I guessed somehow or another, my buay song was written on my face cos i HATE waiting especially when one of them is actually "playing not praying", my mom suddenly just say hey B ah, ok liao, thank Q, I was shocked! After that, the same thing came out from my sis's mouth Thanks!.

NAI BEI, Hello, what is he F meaning of this??? Helped them carry the things down, set up the things, pray and F off is it??? half way through the process..... SIGH...

Actually, wanted to bath 1st before going over to Viv's place, but to avoid facing all of them and instead of showing the buay song face to Tu Lan face, I packed my stuffs and left home within 5 mins.

On my way, msg my darling and preamp her that I was just pissed off by some ppl hence my mood will be affected. She was very understanding. When I reached her home, I've received a big hug from her in her room. Told her to read this blog later as I do not want to say it out.

Ok, that's it for now.

Dad, forgive me for I didn't get the chance to burn the offering to you. I'M SORRY!

Monday, September 14, 2009

What a year! You win some, you lose some

This year is totally different from the 37 yrs I had altogether as I had a partner by the name of Vivian Hoo.
Life is great having her around, her kns behavior, her positive outlook in life, the cheerfulness that was inbuilt her and last but not least, the love, care and concern for me is sooooo ....... (no word to describe)hahhaah...

This is the thing that I consider that I won. I won her heart!

However, the things that I now lost which I have no idea how did that happened was my health.
First, I quit smoking, which by right I should be healthier. However, I might be worst than now if I were to carry on smoking.
Second, I seem to fall sick easily especially this year 2009. Suspect it could be due to the fengshui of my office. (You know, like 8 words don't match and curse one another?)

Bottom line, I guess I still love this year as my winning is still better because when I lost, my winning will come and pacify and sayang me.

I just have to drink more healthy stuffs, exercise more so that whatever I may have lost this year, it will not happen as often next year although the chances of losing is greater when the numeric figure in age grows.

Well, Why am I blogging today? Was on MC for today and tomorrow because I'm sick! Anal leakage!

Things that I've done today;
1) Clear some of the shit that my buddy left behind. Still got tons to clear. Fortunately, I have Viv by my side who voluntarily help me out. (physically, mentally, and financially) Honestly, I feel so damn bad though she will tell me don't be. But still... you know.... Well, Thanks Darling for your support, we will settle ourselves once this shit is done. I promise you.

2)Go wash my maid. Been a long time since I last done so. Felt so sorry that she has been serving me faithfully and yet I have not done my part as the employer to treat her well by checking how is she doing, clean her up when she is dirty etc... (Finally, got the chance to do so.) Will get Viv involve when the chance arises. ;)

Oh Crap, is that all I've done today?? So inefficient. Oh hack, who cares, as long as I feel that I did a bit of things which can help me move forward, I should be happy.

Ok, That's all for now. Till next time when I blog, which I have no idea when...hahha... ciao!

Friday, July 3, 2009

3rd July 2009 @ Brewerkz (Riversidepoint)

Such a crazy guy. Sitting @ Brewerkz, logging on to their free wifi and blogging while waiting for my dearest to finish her work.

Time now is 6.40. SHe should be coming down @ abt 7 but I give her extra 1/2 hr....... 7.30.. Haha

Well, it's a good location, I'm trying to find a new job, blogging, drinking beer and my eyes are wondering around..heheee..WOw.. chio bu...hahha..

Having said that, Just to recap, on 21 June @ P.Ubin with my family. Viv is such a wonderful gal that she blend in so well with everyone. Doubt I have the ablility to do so.. we had a wonderful time together with everyone.

I really felt helpless when Viv is bitching about her work. The only thing as her boyfriend is to support in every way I can. By showering her with extra care & concern, but Viv, if you are reading this, don't do it frequently as my energy level is limited..hahah.. :)

Oh ya, Damn recalling bad incident. Trying to be the perfectionist and good driver, we had sort of a unhappy time when her mom wanted to go Plaza Sing for some appt. For those who knows me, I love driving fast, but her mom's concern is safety, hence I decided to get Viv to drive so that her mom won't nag nag nag.... haha...

But when Viv behind the wheel, my unhappiness shown when she stopped @ the yellow box twice. For me, if I see that, I would have stare at the other driver, but since I am in the car that was in the yellow box, I felt that I was the one committing it, hence automatically show the pai sei action... This trigger unhappiness to Viv.

Honestly, when it comes to argue or quarrel or explaining my actions or whatever shit that involves unhappiness... I'm sucks at it.

I made her cry behind her shade because she was hurt by my paisei actions.

There were this comment made from her and myself..

Viv: Next time I won't drive your car.

Me: Next time I won't sit in the car you drive.

However, thinking back, I would say it was a 50 -50 kind of expectation from each other.
My expectation, expect her to drive like me,
Her expectation, ...I don't know...haha

Anyway, I'm glad that we resolved this disagreement in a very peaceful way. (Reasons, we love each and appreciate each other very much)

Oh well, despite that incident, we still have a wonderful relationship together.

Time now is 7.00pm. she called me earlier @ 6.50pm saying her boss wants more things from her and asked if I wanna go up to her office. I told her I will let her know if I wanna go up. Cos I know her, If I go up, she will be more nervous and panic becos of my presence.

I guess I will just have to order another beer and carry on waiting for her...hahaha..

Happy TGIF!!! ;)

Friday, May 15, 2009

15th May 2009 and before that.

Wow, been a long while since I last blog.

Well, May things happened this few mouths. I will try to see if I'm able to remember and make it short.

Maybe counting backward is easier. ok.



14th May ~ Brainless toilet contractor

1) Started to hack the Kitchen toilet on 11th May. Removed the bowl, the door and tiles. Flatten the cement surface.

2) Put on a layer of water proof sealing before they lay the tiles on 12th May.

3) Installed the new toilet bowl and necessary pipping on 13th May.

4) On 14th May, They began to hack the master bedroom toilet without installing the door for the kitchen toilet. Mum called me. I called up the contractor's office and asked them. This lady told me the instruction was to install a door, but that is meant for the master bedroom one. WTF, that contractor who came that day measured the kitchen toilet, told me to removed it and replaced with another door now tell me the door is meant for the room one??? Who in the right frame of mind would asked to remove the door and do not want to install another one. No choice but to F them.

Assigned this job to my sis who was on leave and at home helping me to monitor them.
She did hell of a good job pushing and screwing them. Wow, I'm impressed. She did mentioned to them. If the door is not here by 4pm, then we will not pay a single cents. Guess what, the joker came with the door at 3.45pm. My sis was disappointed and asked them, why you come so early har? The guy replied, orrh.. cos office tell me I have to be here by 4pm...haha...

Bedroom toilet should finished by this sat 16th May. NO MORE BATHTUB!!! sob sob...


13th May ~ My dearest sister Doris birthday.

1) Viv secured an interview for job. It ended around 7+pm. She took a cab and spend $20+ for it just to join us for a simple celebration for Doris.

2) MRT malfunction, forcing Mavis & Hawker to alight @ AMK & took a cab back to join us.

3) Francis's car, battery flat. No choice, he got to grab a bus and rushed down from Woodlands.

Overall, despite all these, we managed to have a happy and simple celebration for Doris.


Make this real short.

In the month of April & May, Viv helped me a lot to settle the mess that we (Lawrence, Kevin and myself made in the year 2003)

In short, her efforts, support in term of moral and financially will not be forgotten. Now got to see what else I need to do to get this settle fast and have a piece of mind.

Thank you very much for your support and help darling.


That's it for now...

Friday, March 27, 2009

25/3/09~ My 1st weekend without my Viv

Viv set off to Japan with her mom today morning to watch cherry blossom. She will be away for 6 to 7 days. Be back on 1st April 09. I already started missing her.
So sweet of her, call me when she was @ SG Airport. Her flight was supposed to take off @ 9.50am but ended up took off @ 10.08am. I know as I was on the sg airport departure info as well as Narita airport info until she touches down in Tokyo safe and sound. I know the plane touches down safely before she sms me to let me know she has touched down.

Well, 1st weekend all alone without her (ever since we dated). I will try to find something useful to do... like, sleep...lol

Oh ya, my lappy was down for a few weeks liao, now I'm using my sis kneetop to enter this blog while waiting for my new lappy to arrive as I have signed up with Singtel Broadboard whcih they have installed for me on 24/3/09 plus 9 mth free Mio TV.

Ok, my sis kneetop is 10" hence I better stop as my eyes are cross now...haha..

Waiting for you to be back honey... ;)